Shandra is exceptionally gifted at taking you to the place(s) you need to go in a safe, gentle, and protected way. For instance, much to my surprise, we encountered some pretty intense resistance at the very start of my session, and then what initially seemed to be some random nonsensical (to me) feedback loop in the vision I was experiencing.

Shandra was masterful at guiding my shift out of both scenarios without influencing my experience; that is, she helped me to move MYSELF beyond those roadblocks & to continue on this vision quest. The session continued & where I expected to experience my past, abusive relationship as the root cause of this seemingly life long crisis of mine, I was instead face to face with a very vivid (and often repeated) memory of my parents arguing around what I assume was the time they split up. Shandra helped me to really observe that memory and most importantly what I actually experienced in that moment.

You see, my entire life whenever I’ve had that memory pop up I’ve always marveled at how unaffected I was by that moment, how I sat there focused & quiet & calm…what I was able to witness via this session was the truth of just how impacted I actually was at that time. I wasn’t quiet & calm, I was overwhelmed & stunned into silence & avoidance. The reality is, I was SO AFFECTED in that moment that my soul fractured! And that is something I was only able to see because of Shandra’s ability to make me feel safe, to feel seen, and to make me feel heard!

That session ended with both of my fractured halves immediately merging back into one beautiful & luminous WHOLE and I haven’t been the same since! I now have a far greater understanding of how I came to be so voiceless, how I repeatedly “fell into” a pattern of disconnecting from my feelings during intense emotional storms, and ultimately how that has kept me so stuck in so many different areas of my life. And THAT is invaluable!